March 02
Tonight was another Arkansas Symphony concert in Little Rock. The
preview session
was as interesting as usual. This time, David Itkin was joined by
composer Claude Baker.
The concert began with Baker's Lamentation, which David said was very
good. Okay.
We can recognize our limitations, but we found the piece lamentable.
We really enjoyed Beethoven's Eroica Symphony during the second part of
the concert.
March 04
Starting last night, we had a blizzard, which provided no end of winter
photo ops.
Fortunately, by noon, Spring had arrived.
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March 06
After the Democratic Club Board meeting, we had a Civitan meeting.
Tonight, Tina Menzies
talked about Teen Challenge, a 14-month, faith-based residential
program for drug and
alcohol abusers.
March 07
Starting last night, we had our second blizzard of the season. Cabin
fever is rife.
March 08
Fortunately, the roads were clear enough for an early morning drive to
Little Rock for the
State Democratic Convention. Our job was to pick the delegates who
would represent
Arkansas at the National Convention in Denver.
While there were many moving moments (admittedly, I am easily moved),
there was also
great confusion and misinformation. Moreover, our county (Garland) was
outfoxed by some
better organized counties, and we ended up electing one alternate
delegate. I was greatly
disappointed, but Suze and I looked at it as an opportunity to improve.
Fortunately, neither
of us were candidates for delegate to the national convention.
(That's Bill Gwatney, state party
chairman, holding up evidence of the job done by the Bush
administration.)
Here's the picture that appeared in the Arkansas Democrat-Gazette.
Yes, I'm the bald guy beside the raven-haired beauty.
March 13
After an early-morning drive to Little Rock, we caught our flights to
John
Wayne airport in Santa Ana, arriving around 12:30. With only carry-on
(including a hanging bag with wedding duds), we hit the ground running
and by 4:30, we had:
- Picked up our rental car
- Drove to the hotel and checked in
- Drove to the County Clerk's office to get an application for our
marriage license
- Drove to Orange and purchased some floral arrangements
- Bought two cases of champagne
- Took the champagne and floral arrangements to catering at Chapman
- Visited faculty friends in the Social Sciences
- Met with Ron Farmer to tour the chapel and make some plans
Waiting
to see a man about a marriage license
Then it was back to the hotel for dinner and some rest.
March 14
At 6:30 the next morning, we joined Carolyn and David Hauk for
breakfast at
Watson's Drugstore in Orange. Suze anad Carolyn were docents together
at the
Nixon Library.
After breakfast, we did some miscellaneous shopping in and around
Orange, including some
of Suze's favorite thrift shops (well, and maybe a computer store or
two). Then we had a lunch
at the Blue Frog just off the Orange Circle.
Shopped a little more after lunch and headed back to the hotel for a
nap.
Had dinner tonight with Myron Yeager and Brad Smith at the Daily Grill,
near our hotel.
I kept trying to recall where I had heard that name before, finally
realizing they have the
dining room concession at the Westin in Portland.
March 15
Suze and I had a restful morning, saving up our energy for the arrival
of Evelyn, Henry,
and their parents.
As soon as they settled in their room, we all gathered in the
lobby/restaurant for lunch,
and Aaron and I had a board meeting of Babbie Enterprises, Inc. He is
now Vice President,
while Suze joined the Board and was elected Secretary/Treasurer.
Business done, everyone under 50 went for a swim with what seemed an
Arctic breeze blowing
across the pool.
That evening, we caravanned to the Irvine Spectrum ("Where the 5 and
405 meet") for some
shopping and dinner. Despite our recent snow in Arkansas, we both
throught it was cold as
anything. Didn't bother anyone under 10, however.
March 16
The big day finally arrived.
At 11:00 a.m. we arrived at the Wallace All Faiths Chapel at Chapman
University to prep
the day's events. Ron Farmer was a great host and calming influence.
Early in the preparations, Suze's brother, Dwight, and his wife, Sandy,
arrived from San
Diego as expected, but unexpectedly they brought with them brother
David from Ludington, MI,
and his lady, Linda Parliament. David had called us this morning and
said he and Linda were
in Georgia and wouldn't be able to attend the wedding. What a happy
deception.
Now. . .let the good times roll.
Suze was the creator and producer of the event, and I am still in awe
of her imagination and
organization. Here's the program for the event.
Program
Piano Medley
Chapman student, Jared Eben
Violin Solo
Chapman student, Daphne Medina
Procession
Best Man, Aaron Babbie
Matron of Honor, Ara Vallaster
Flower Children, Evelyn and Henry
Babbie
Bagpiper, Kevin Weed
Bride and Groom
Introduction to the Ceremony
Reverend Dr. Ron Farmer
Reading: Dr. Myron Yeager
Violin Solo
Marriage Vows and Pronouncement
Reception in Argyros Forum, Room 209
Immediately following the ceremony
Harpist: Chapman student, Keryn Wouden
Refreshments: Sedexho Food Service
Beginning around 12:20, the pianist began playing some light classical
and broadway pieces to
warm up the audience, while the wedding party moved to an ante room to
wonder if anyone would
come. Our friends, Alyce Thomas and Carolyn Hauk, welcomed people at
the door and handed out
programs.
With the violinist playing
La Vie En
Rose, my Best Man, Aaron, walked down the aisle to the front of
the chapel. He was followed by Evelyn and Henry,
designated
flower distributors, who were herded
down the aisle by their mother and Matron of Honor, Ara.
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Once the flower petals were properly spread down the aisle, the
bagpiper marched forward, playing
Scotland, the Brave. He was
followed by the laughing/crying
bride and
groom, hand in hand.
We ascended to the stage where Ron Farmer was waiting to get down to
business. He welcomed
the audience of family and friends, mostly from the Nixon Library
Docent Guild, Chapman's Town &
Gown (where we first met), and the Chapman faculty and administration.
Myron Yeager, my Chapman colleague and our very good friend, came to
the dias and read some
love poems we had selected. That was followed by another violin solo:
Dvorak's
Songs My Mother
Taught Me.
Next, it was time for the bride and groom to recite their vows. Suze
was great, and I made it almost
all the way through without sobbing for joy. Here are the vows.
Earl
Standing here today, Suzanne, I realize I have loved you since before
the beginning of time.
I suspect, in fact, that we have each had numerous incarnations on this
warming globe with
only one purpose: to find each other. Today, we are gathered to
celebrate the successful
accomplishment of that cosmic challenge. Today, the planets are finally
all in alignment,
quequed up to bless this sacred union. Through you, I have experienced
the wisdom so well
expressed in Les Miserables: "to love another person is to see the face
of God." I love you
absolutely and everlastingly, my dear Suzebella.
Suzanne
Earl, it is my privilege and complete honor to marry you. You are the
most loving person I
have ever known. You give love to me, your family and friends.
Additionally you are a loving
guardian of the planet and its people. You wrote a book entitled, You
Can Make a Difference,
and I want you to know what a difference you make in my life. Although
we live in two
separate bodies, we share a single heart. I deeply cherish every
characteristic about you.
I love you with all “our” heart and soul and look forward to sharing
the rest of our lives together.
Rings were exchanged, marital status was
declared, prayers were prayed,
and we could finally kiss.
Now it was time to PARTY!
The bagpiper led us out of the chapel, through the new piazza, and on
to the reception.
(David seemed to have his eye
on the sandwiches.)
(I really was happier than I
look.)
After it was all complete, Aaron, Ara, and the kids took off for a
movie, and a mid-evening
flight back to Portland. The newlyweds had a quiet evening in the hotel.
All in all, it was a
very good day.
March 17
Early this morning, we checked out of the hotel and drove to John Wayne
airport for an early
morning flight that had been cancelled as it turned out. So we enjoyed
the Admiral's Club for
a few hours and finally flew to Dallas/Fort Worth, where we waited for
a substitute connecting
flight to Little Rock, where we finally touched down after 11 p.m. We
drove home, arriving a
bit after midnight.
Today, we learned an important lesson. As long as we were together, it
was like a honeymoon.
A honeymoon in airport departure lounges to be sure but a honeymoon all
the same.
March 18
After some sleep and repacking at home, we spent the day shopping in
Little Rock, followed by
a chamber music concert that evening. It was a very enjoyable program,
with some of the pieces
dramatically punctuated by lightning and thunder.
(Meredith Maddox is a superb
violinist, whom we always enjoy.)
We spent the evening in a hotel near the Little Rock airport.
March 19
Okay, let the honeymoon begin. Early this morning, we began our
two-legged trip from Little
Rock to Key West. Once again, we got to test the proposition that it's
still a honeymoon, even
when your 3:15 flight is delayed in 20-30 minute increments until
6:00. However, we were
eventually on the ground at the end of the Florida keys and settling
into the southermost hotel
in the continental U. S. It was called, appropriately enough, the
Southernmost Hotel.
(Our room was third from the
far end on the second floor.)
March 20
Today was devoted to exploring this 2x4 mile island. Duval Street, near
our hotel, is the main
drag through the old town. After walking along a bit of Duval, we found
out way to Ernest
Hemingway's house. It was well packed with tourists, but it was nice to
be in the space he
occupied and where he wrote many of his books.
(There are sixty cats living on the
estate. I'm still not sure why.)
(This is Papa's desk and
typewriter.)
After touring the Heminway House, we jumped aboard a bus tour, spent
some time outside the
main art museum, and came back to the hotel for dinner.
There is evidently a lively cultural life in Key West, but Suze said we
didn't have time for
all of it.
March 21
Today, we went back to the Key West Museum of Art and History to fully
soak up some culture.
This particular museum featured what might be called Interactive
Art--plus some Hemingway
stuff. This gives new meaning to "expose yourself to art." Or is
it, "expose art to yourself."
(Okay, so Hemingway had two
typewriters.)
Back at the hotel, we soaked up a few rays. . .
. . .before going to dinner. We ate every dinner in this same
restaurant beside the hotel.
March 22
Started the day with breakfast in the same restaurant. Here's a view
from the restaurant
back at our room in the hotel.
The big event today was a visit to the Butterfly House.
Then it was time to head out to the airport for a late afternoon flight
to Atlanta and on to
Little Rock. Yeah, that's what they want you to think.
However, today's delays were less
than previous trips. And any time together, even in an airport lounge.
. .yeah, yeah, it's a
honeymoon. (Actually it was.)